At So Betty, we believe that every invitation should be as beautifully unique as you are. One size doesn’t fit all, and no-one should be forced to choose a template, and so you can be confident with So Betty that your stationery will be perfectly adapted or designed to your specification, with no extra cost to you.


All of the collections on the website can be customised to suit you and your wedding day. If you like a style or layout, but want to change things such as colours or flowers or fonts or wording – you can include these things within the ‘Design Customisations’ box on the product page, and we’ll then work on adapting your chosen design. There’s no limit to what can be changed, and you’ll get to see a digital proof of your design before committing to printing. With unlimited amendments then permitted, or even changing the design entirely, we won’t stop working until your invitations are perfect for you.


So Betty prides itself on offering a completely bespoke service, with every invitation starting from a blank canvas and built up based on the customers’ wants and needs. That’s how each of our existing collections started life – for a real couple and a real wedding day. You’ll give us information about your wedding day and how you’d like your stationery to look, and we’ll design it completely from scratch for you. As with all of our stationery, you can make an unlimited number of amendments on seeing your digital proofs, and we’ll keep working together on your designs until you are madly in love with them.


You don’t have to make any compromises when ordering with So Betty. You can have everything you want for your invitation design all on one perfect card.

There’s also no difference in the order process or turnaround times for our bespoke invitations – it’ll take the same amount of time and work the exact same way as if you were to order one of our existing designing.

And the best bit is – you don’t have to worry about it costing the earth. There is absolutely no additional charge for our bespoke design service. We want you to be completely in love with your stationery, whatever it takes, which is why this service won’t cost a penny more. Invitations start at just £1.80 each, making a custom collection achievable and affordable.


1 – Payment
Place your order through the website using the links on this page, or via the ‘Bespoke Collections’ section of the menu. We will then set aside up to 6 hours to work on your bespoke collection.

2 – Powwow
Send over as much information as you can about your wedding day, theme, colours, ideas. This doesn’t have to be stationery related. Just anything to help us delve into your wedding planning mind.

3 – Proof
You’ll receive a digital proof of your print in the current design turnaround (see home page for most accurate timescales) to take a look at via email, or if you contacted us through Facebook, we’ll reply on Messenger.

4 – Perfecting
Here’s where the process varies from order to order. You may instantly love your invitations and be ready to print. You may just want to tweak a few things. You might want to try some more significant amendments. Or you may not like it and want to start afresh. We’ll follow your lead with any revision requests, etc – and return amended proofs to you within 3 days.

We will continue the amendment process as many times as needed, and work on the design until it’s perfect.

5 – Printing
Once the proofs are perfect for you, and you’ve given us the thumbs up, your order will be sent to print. Printing generally takes 10 working days, however we can better advise of likely turnaround times at the point of approval.

Once sent to print, no amendments can be made without additional costs being incurred, so we always ask that you double check every element of your proofs, from the design to the wording, and everything in-between prior to approval.

6 – Postage
Your order will be packaged and dispatched to you generally within 2 weeks of approval (check home page for up-to-date turnaround times), and will land on your doorstep 1-3 working days later.

Now all that’s left to do is for you to send them out to your friends and family, and enjoy the rest of your wedding planning preparations!